I’m in a massive flare and crash at the moment.
I’ve been feeling off for a few days and I had a feeling I was going to flare and crash which may sound silly to anyone who doesn’t have chronic condition/s. I noticed my muscles becoming a lil bit tighter each day, my hands and feet swelling in the day and being swollen when I woke. My body felt out of synch, becoming slower and more achey my mind more confused and unable to think properly. I woke yesterday feeling unwell and in a lot of pain, my muscles so tight by the early evening I could barely walk or move. Today at 3am I woke in hell, I couldn’t move for an hour after waking, and when I did move I wish I hadn’t. My muscles are screaming at me, the pain is everywhere and my bone pain is back.
I’m disappointed and slightly annoyed, after a few weeks of being much better my body has whipped the rug from under me and is reminding me that my conditions are always here. The worst thing which overrides every pain, muscle lock, bone ache is disappointing others. I was doing so well, hoping this was a turning point and everyone was so pleased. Now I’m back to square one and I hate that it’s others I am disappointing after their hopes were raised.
I spoke to my specialist yesterday, she has taken me off the pain meds she prescribed and can’t give me anything else until my MRI, x ray, ultrasound and blood results are back. She received a letter from my rhumetologist and wouldn’t say exactly what it said, just that my muscle swelling is off the chart and he’s investigating other possible conditions. I managed to get her to say he thinks there’s something more going on, sneaky of me but her reaction prompted me to do so. After all the letter was about me! I hate all this, oh I can’t tell you exactly stuff.. Um excuse me, he’s talking about me? It’s my body that’s being discussed and it’s my right to know what’s going on. So I have to manage on oramorph and codeine again until my results are through, which will be in a month or so. I have to wean myself off the pain med as my body will go into craving mode if I don’t.. So I can’t take codeine for another week or so and just have oramorph til then… :s
I understand why my specialist can’t prescribe until my results are through, and I need to wean myself off the drug. I don’t blame her, and will even think about her suggestion of being an inpatient to be monitered. I understand but that doesn’t mean I’m happy about the pain that is and will continue to raise it’s ugly head until I get my results. That I’m happy I can hardly walk again or use my right arm properly. This is a bit of a nightmare, which I’m awake for and know it’ll continue for awhile before it fades to a more manageable level.
On a happier note, I have had my owl pendents come through to make owl necklaces 🙂 my partner has bought all the pendents, beads, equipment I have and I still have more to come. I am thinking of selling them and donating a percentage to m.e and fibro charities. I try to donate how I can, giving clothes etc and although it won’t be hundreds of pounds it’ll be something to help aid their research. Also it is giving me something to focus on at the moment. I still have my left arm and half my right hand in use. Until I lose total use of both hands and arms I will continue to make bracelets and necklaces and get around the flat as best I can.
And I have the memories of the zoo achievement to make me smile. That day will make me happy forever 🙂
Fibro and M.E 